Lorri_luxxe
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I’m 34 and I’ve given up on men
I’m 34, single and I’ve given up on men, might go as far as saying I’m a spinster!
In todays video I’ll be sharing my journey of decentering from men, being single in your 30s, how to be your own dream girl, setting higher standards in relationships and how to be happy in your single season
This video is inspired by South Korea 4b movement, opting to be single, childless and decenter men
Let me know your thoughts in the comments💕
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I Became the Main Character in my 30s and it changed my life
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I became the main character of my life, in my 30s. I was a late bloomer, feeling behind in life in my 20s to having main character energy in my 30s and just being THAT GIRL. In this video I will share how to become the main character of your in your 30s as a late bloomer. Regardless if you’re in your 30s, 40s or 50s you can glow up, reinvent yourself and become the main character of your life! ...
How I Plan to Manifest $10k Months and Change my Life in one year
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Комментарии

  • @user-jh8sm2ph5e
    @user-jh8sm2ph5e 3 часа назад

    I am 50. I am (still) madly in love with my husband of 20 years. We met in a pub. I was a single mother of a teenage boy when he met me. I was actually still married but separated when we met. I hadn't done any work on myself...I hadn't travelled, was in debt, so-so career (I didn't have the luxury of a career as a single mother I simply had to put food on the table)....I dare say he had not done any work on himself. I did not use guidelines, I used my common sense and my instincts - as did he. We work as a team. We work hard and we work well as a team. We have grown as individuals within this team and outside of our team - now our family. He expects nothing of me - I don't 'expect' anything from him. I know he will always put me first - otherwise I would have moved on in the early days. This is the key - I invested in him early on - so what if I got my heart broken - I took a chance, I went all in. I didn't 'test' him or play games. I was honest. He could have broken my heart - others have (including my first husband), but so what. Who wants a sterile 'pure' life with no heart ache and no passion? My heart is not something to protect - it is something to use! I make it work hard. It will mend. He is a provider. He makes me laugh. He has a strong work ethic. He will never lie. He is an intelligent multi-dimensional (not just sex focussed) individual and I am immensely proud to be his wife, and the mother of his son. I look forward to seeing him everyday, so much. We have fought, screamed, hated each other but we love each other deeply. I have not missed out on anything. He facilitates my growth as I do his. He is my best friend. I could not imagine my life without my husband and want for nothing. I hope women never give up on men.

  • @Simnadine
    @Simnadine 23 часа назад

    Single mum 2 kids, can’t be bothered with men love being single can’t see myself with another guy as they aren’t trust worthy.

  • @kimberleytudor9727
    @kimberleytudor9727 День назад

    Thank you for this video❤

  • @allyroberts9153
    @allyroberts9153 День назад

    I’m in my 40s and I love your content ❤❤❤

  • @MoreLessOrganizing
    @MoreLessOrganizing День назад

    Yasss! 🥂🫶🏾

  • @AnitaBenko
    @AnitaBenko День назад

    Hey 🌞

  • @Florence-h6g
    @Florence-h6g 2 дня назад

    Thanks for sharing❤

  • @AlieshaNigea
    @AlieshaNigea 2 дня назад

    I’m sorry you’re getting so much hate from men on this video! I love the advice and I hear you! 💕

  • @blessinglillian
    @blessinglillian 2 дня назад

    Just dropping this here :)) “He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding; he reveals deep and hidden things; he knows what is in the darkness, and the light dwells with him.” (Daniel 2:21-22) From Watermark: "As much as we desire to control our lives, God is the one in control. He is in control of every circumstance and outcome. When we recall this, we are aware of the power God has over us and we are humbly reminded that any good that comes to our lives is through God not our actions or thoughts." Manifestation is not of God. It is of human will and the sinful desire we have to be Lord over our lives. This can be defined as an idol - anything we worship over God. (Like Psalms 115:4-8: Their idols are silver and gold, the work of human hands. They have mouths, but do not speak; eyes, but do not see. They have ears, but do not hear; noses, but do not smell. They have hands, but do not feel; feet, but do not walk; and they do not make a sound in their throat. Those who make them become like them; so do all who trust in them.) But Jesus is Lord. He is the ONLY One who could live and die and RISE a third time as a worthy sacrifice for sins. So, please, it is a sin to manifest. I struggle with idolatry and loving God's gifts more than Himself. But everyone needs to completely trust in God even when negative things happen. Jesus is the only salvation from eternal damnation and Hell. Not manifestations. He gives us true joy!! Thank you!

  • @monaefierce
    @monaefierce 2 дня назад

    Keep going❤

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 19 часов назад

      Thank you my darling 🫶🏽💕🫶🏽

  • @gailwhite1788
    @gailwhite1788 2 дня назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @jordanbeau7348
    @jordanbeau7348 2 дня назад

    Im 30 year old lesbian and i also stopped chasing women. Idk why folks are upset when its a woman no longer chasing men. But there comes a time when you recognize that there is a card you dont have in your hand, and you have to go for a different set. I decided to become a single mim by choice despite never assuming id be the one to carry a child. I am going to be living my life fulfilling myself, and my future daughter's needs. I found this video and you to be incredibly inspirational 🤍

  • @SthokoK
    @SthokoK 2 дня назад

    I so wish I can delete these repulsive comments on this video, there's something terribly wrong in the world! What's wrong with wanting better for yourself, not insulting anybody but simply wanting to be treated better, why are people so angry and mean!? I honestly don't get it!!!

  • @SthokoK
    @SthokoK 2 дня назад

    I so wish I can delete these repulsive comments on this video, there's something terribly wrong in the world! What's wrong with wanting better for yourself, not insulting anybody but simply wanting to be treated better, why are people so angry and mean!? I honestly don't get it!!!

  • @jonathanjacob5453
    @jonathanjacob5453 3 дня назад

    Great video, live your life. You don’t have to justify yourself to anyone.

  • @ralphpinkins5619
    @ralphpinkins5619 3 дня назад

    You havent given up on men, MEN have given up on YOU. 1. You still desire to be married and in a relationship with a man like you said. 2. If the man of your dreams, who met all your criteria decided he wanted to marry you and be with you, you would marry him. Youre not the source of mens desires. Youre a 34yo single mother. Youre in the undesirable category. Youre solution to your lack of desirability on the dating market is to withhold and manipulate sex to entice a man into a relationship/commitment with you which ultimately is going to have the opposite effect and push men away from you leading to you dying alone. Terrible advice.

  • @desmofc
    @desmofc 3 дня назад

    Despite what’s been heavily preached, people cannot have it all. I don’t think this advice will be beneficial for women.

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      Why do you all like to defend men that are worse than you??? Keep it pushing and get out of women's business

  • @toofast0253
    @toofast0253 3 дня назад

    Quick question: where are the channels where men whine about EVERY FREAKIN' THING? What's that? They don't exist? Huh.

    • @geminibabe808
      @geminibabe808 3 дня назад

      Quick answer: They do exist. It's in the comments section of any channel that's meant for WOMEN'S self-improvement, like this channel for example. Just like moths to a flame, they gather in spaces that are not intended for them to complain, spread hate or even attempt to "humble" any and every woman they can. They can't resist. I dont know, It's something about women wanting more for themselves that really makes the guys upset. Huh. Why do you think that is?

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 3 дня назад

      To be fair those channels do exist and you know it. I think it’s great that you have a bunch of men and women opting out.

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      A few channels MTR OSHAY DUKE JACKSON FRESH AND FIT Just search manosphere and you'll see men complain about every little thing women over 18 do . You are welcome

  • @cryptoanalyst8495
    @cryptoanalyst8495 3 дня назад

    This is a classic example of single women keeping other women single. Can you see how doing what she suggests would lead to being single. No prioritising marriage no how to find the right qualities in men. Just me me me me. Young women ignore Thai single mom. Find a good man ask your father.

  • @wallstreets7357
    @wallstreets7357 3 дня назад

    Terrible advice

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      Y'all are scared to see women refuse to be with men because then they can't get controlled

  • @jwg9338
    @jwg9338 3 дня назад

    A 3 chasing a 9, someone needs a reality check...

    • @ntandoyenkosimoyo2071
      @ntandoyenkosimoyo2071 3 дня назад

      Bruh😂😂😂

    • @PastelCelestialq
      @PastelCelestialq 2 дня назад

      Don't talk about yourself like that. I'm sure you could go from 3 to a 9 if you just get up brush your teeth and take a bath. Then maybe you can reach a 4 one day. Don't be hard on yourself. ❤❤❤

    • @laura-bianca3130
      @laura-bianca3130 2 дня назад

      😂👍🏻​ @@PastelCelestialq

  • @kevinleewilliams5119
    @kevinleewilliams5119 3 дня назад

    Men and women belong together. Unfortunately, you probably will never really have true happiness that only comes from a relationship until you just kneel to a man, it is what it is.

    • @geminibabe808
      @geminibabe808 3 дня назад

      I'm going to have to respectfully disagree on that part about having true happiness. True happiness comes from within, Not "kneeling" to your partner. Putting your happiness in someone else's hands often opens the door to being taken advantage of or abuse. Confidence, self respect, and setting healthy boundaries are key for creating your own happiness and that goes for both males and females.

    • @wallstreets7357
      @wallstreets7357 3 дня назад

      ​@@geminibabe808 gemini... figures

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      Kneel to a woman or a man if you want and while at it keep your nose out of women's business

    • @oakiediaries9907
      @oakiediaries9907 День назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @stefanmatton8778
    @stefanmatton8778 3 дня назад

    you're admitting to being a spinster, but believe setting higher standards will get the man you desire. The delusion is real

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      Yes because for her to be worthy of your evaluation of her ....she must cower and have deep insecurity and take anyan right?

    • @PastelCelestialq
      @PastelCelestialq 2 дня назад

      But why you mad bruh? 😂😂😂😂

  • @noirefit5954
    @noirefit5954 3 дня назад

    I’ll be 30 this year and my story is the same. I’m a single mom of 1 and I’ve decided dating is just not on my radar. I am open, I’d love to be married one day. However, I’ve decided it’s not my center focus and not a very high priority. My daughter and I are my center focus, including God lol though not in that order. Men are simply not that important since all they want to do is play around

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 3 дня назад

      Hey lovely! Decentering from men goes a long way on our healing journey. The right man will come, God already as has blessed us, we just have to wait for it to manifest in the physical 💕🫶🏽💕

    • @ralphpinkins5619
      @ralphpinkins5619 3 дня назад

      cope

    • @dmariots
      @dmariots 3 дня назад

      Hey a 37-year-old man here has been looking for his wife since he was 18 here. I walked past single mothers because I know they weren't dating seriously for marriage and in their 20s and got pregnant by thugs and players. Do you think that's fair to me to accept a woman that gave 💩 man a kid that she wasn't committed to. That's reckless. You guys tell me... If the man you got pregnant by actually had characteristics of a man that would be a husband... Is he loyal, good morals good values, work that benefit the world? Was his favorite songs talking about love and togetherness or was it talking about broken relationships and drugs, did he smoke weed, or do any other kind of drug, was his friend group good moral people? You guys can't get mad because the only man that are picking you are not serious... Not being serious is what got you into the situation that you're in that's why you're attracting it. And lastly since you were not serious and the dating world when you were younger you have habits and thought process that repulsed the good loyal men that want something serious. So toxic men becomes like your comfort zone a good man will make you feel weird just because of your lifelong habits. By the way I've only laid down with women 15X only what do that with a woman if I thought she would be someone I would marry. Some friends of mine that I can't contact with told me he laid down with 300 plus women he's a narcissist he abuses them drugged them and women flock straight to him knowing that he's toxic

  • @user-qs3cv8vn2n
    @user-qs3cv8vn2n 3 дня назад

    I’m 33 with no kid and broke😅 but I’m rebuilding myself and hoping for the best.your channel is the best ❤

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 3 дня назад

      It’s never too late to rebuild yourself lovely! I know better days are coming 🫶🏽💕🫶🏽

    • @malindah709
      @malindah709 3 дня назад

      Yes better is coming

  • @rsinha7017
    @rsinha7017 4 дня назад

    🙌💖

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 4 дня назад

      Thank you for support lovely 🫶🏽💕🫶🏽

  • @electricbeing993
    @electricbeing993 4 дня назад

    This why i say people be full of shit. As soon as u cover up or say u a virgin, no man want u or call u prude and uptight. If u show ya ass, it makes other women compete and hive mind kick in. This why i stay solo these days. Dont got time for the mind fuck games from both genders

  • @affirmationswithamber
    @affirmationswithamber 5 дней назад

    Love this! I’m grateful that my schedule allows me to live a balanced lifestyle, which I prayed for.

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 3 дня назад

      Living in answered prayers 🙌🏽 God is faithful 🙏🏽

  • @HeismyShepard
    @HeismyShepard 5 дней назад

    Nothing wrong with modesty.

  • @kalayahwilds7685
    @kalayahwilds7685 5 дней назад

    My sign

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 3 дня назад

      YES! Better days are coming 🙌🏽

  • @Roxianna22
    @Roxianna22 6 дней назад

    Why are u describing me? I was just like you were. I’m still working on myself and I’m so glad I found your channel.

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 3 дня назад

      Awwww love that you found me hun! Can’t wait to see where your journey takes you 🫶🏽💕🫶🏽

  • @melanati0n
    @melanati0n 6 дней назад

    "Manifestation is delusional faith" well said

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe 3 дня назад

      Glad you agree 🙌🏽

  • @biancakison1310
    @biancakison1310 6 дней назад

    😂❤

  • @cynthiamarquez3370
    @cynthiamarquez3370 9 дней назад

    Get a Latino guy and never have to worry about getting skinny for a man

  • @jenny11173
    @jenny11173 9 дней назад

    ❤❤❤ facts! 😂😂😂

  • @Selena-Appiah
    @Selena-Appiah 10 дней назад

    My manifestations are happening next ❤